This memoir is a heartfelt and honest depiction of one woman’s journey after her son is diagnosed with autism. It begins with a loving forward by her son himself, establishing the purpose behind his mother’s words: “KIND Parents, even if your child’s brain works differently, like mine, he still has a lot of things he can offer to the world.” From there, the reader is introduced to the author herself—a self-proclaimed planner who once thought she could organize the world around her until her son’s diagnosis turned her tidy world upside down. She details the signs leading up to this diagnosis, providing a roadmap for families in similar situations. She describes key players in her son’s life and people who made an impact, both positively and negatively. The reader follows both her and her son as they grow, learn, and ultimately realize how they can use their own story to help others.

One of the most powerful messages a family processing similar diagnoses can receive is that they are not alone. This reassurance shines through the author’s words from the very beginning. In describing her moments of confusion, loneliness, and frustration, she provides comfort to those who find themselves on the same path that she has walked. Her detailed account serves as a guidebook for readers affected by autism. It also lovingly informs those who may be tempted to see individuals diagnosed with autism as “other.” Her good humor, grace, and faith are evident in her words, as is her prevalent belief in the capabilities of all people. Her words leave readers feeling encouraged, valued, and hopeful.

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