In a world overrun with “me-first” and “dog-eat-dog” mindsets, Gitelson’s book is infused with a fundamental proposition to the collective: the world can be a drastically different place if we understand that we are interconnected beings and that helping those in need can ignite the power of one. Indeed, if even one person’s mindset is altered to give, one then has the potential to inspire another and another ad infinitum. In Gitelson’s work, the overarching mantra is that everyone has a role to play. At the same time, the author does a commendable job of eradicating the myth behind giving, arguing that beyond monetary currency, the currency of time is arguably the most important resource one can allocate to service.

The book is thoroughly thought-provoking. Its structure provides maximum clarity, and the table of contents is less of a chapter break and more of a direct map that is tailored to every type of giver. It is no different than the aisle numbers at a grocery store, and the precision with which the contents are outlined coincides seamlessly with the author’s own call to action. In addition to demystifying the act of giving, the author further acknowledges that having a family background of philanthropy (as she did with her family’s relics and book collections that were donated to Columbia and NYU) helps, but one does not need a come-to-Jesus moment to start giving.

The fusion of personal experience, references to prolific figures in philanthropy, and clear-cut research make it undeniable that giving leads to a euphoric state, a genuine sense of joy and fulfillment. Perhaps the most compelling attribute of this book is its ability to think outside the box. This guide undoubtedly has the rare ability to both motivate one to action and provide one with the platform to complete the deed as well.

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