Starting when he was around four years old, Malatesta's parents noticed strange patterns in his behavior that led to an autistic diagnosis. He got help at home and school with ongoing learning and social disabilities. In his own words, Malatesta describes pivotal moments in his march toward increasing independence. While proud of himself, Malatesta emphasizes gratitude to people (live and online) who support his journey. He praises family members and admires sports and media figures he tries to emulate. He also recognizes his good qualities, like his amazing long-term memory, kindness, and easy-going manner. An introduction by an autism specialist suggests that Malatesta's story is meant to honor and give hope to people similar to him and open others' eyes to this unique neurologic perspective.

Organized chronologically, the book culls moments (mostly in the family context) that boost Malatesta's self-esteem and build his trust and sense of acceptance. He remembers accomplishments like learning to talk at age five, making progress controlling his emotions in elementary school, and learning to drive. Other moments find him bullied by schoolmates or set back from work, "literally disabled" by depression and anxiety. He regrets never finding a woman mutually attracted to him. Highlights center around travel, and the insights into different cultures are a treat.

The positive and negative memories create a balanced text. No one memory stands out above others, creating a measured pace. Malatesta's reflections on key happenings show a tender heart and an incisive mind. Some sentences ramble, but extraneous details about football games, TV shows, and travel incidents add color. The collection of anecdotes amasses an intimate portrait of a determined fellow, inspiring those for whom life comes easier.

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