Lili's Caregiver's Guide
by Lili Udell Fiore
Balboa Press


"Always treat people well and with the highest degree of respect even if they have not earned it."

Fiore leverages her extensive experience as a caregiver to present a comprehensive guide for caregivers and their loved ones. She recounts the initiation of her caregiving journey, which began with her aunt and subsequently extended to her parents. Through these experiences, Fiore undertook thorough research and consulted knowledgeable individuals, enabling her to provide optimal care to her relatives. Despite the challenges of balancing her personal and professional responsibilities, she remained dedicated to ensuring quality care for both herself and her loved ones, demonstrating her adept multitasking skills. Furthermore, she obtained certification as an end-of-life doula.This guide is a valuable resource for individuals seeking to navigate the complexities of their own caregiving journeys.

In her work, Fiore firstly addresses the well-being of caregivers. She emphasizes that caregivers must be in a good state of mind to care for their loved ones effectively. To illustrate this point, she draws a parallel to parents on airplanes, who are instructed to put on their own oxygen masks before assisting their children. This analogy highlights the importance of caregivers prioritizing their own well-being before helping others. Taking care of themselves is crucial. Additionally, Fiore speaks about the importance of allowing ill loved ones to retain some control over their lives despite their health challenges. She encourages caregivers to support their loved ones in making choices about aspects of their lives, such as what clothes to wear or how to decorate their rooms. By doing so, those who are ill can experience a sense of agency and control, which can contribute positively to their overall well-being. Fiore emphasizes that this sense of control can be beneficial for their emotional health.

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