In his capacity as a counselor for those facing life-threatening illnesses, the author pulls upon what he deems “teachable moments” that have emerged through his work. He divides the book into three sections or themes which he sees to be of the most importance to those with whom he has worked. Each section begins with an introduction to the theme. He uses the Bible and examples from his practice and personal experiences to discuss each concept. Each chapter closes with a few questions to enhance one’s understanding of the material by applying concepts to one’s personal life. Lessons cover common interests and concerns of his clients, such as forgiveness, taking revenge, and how to achieve serenity. The lessons are short, and the book can be used effectively in individual or group Bible studies.

Stephenson states in his “Introduction to Forgiveness” that “One of the most challenging tasks we as humans have can be found in the word forgiveness." He goes on to say that "Forgiveness is not limited to the offense from others; it is also for the times we have harmed ourselves and cannot self-forgive.” In his work, the author finds that forgiveness is one of the most important concerns of those facing death, whether the capacity to forgive oneself or one who has caused great sorrow to the individual. His discussions about forgiveness are filled with examples intended to help individuals come to terms with their need to offer this gift to themselves as well as others. Forgiveness can be a stepping stone or a roadblock, but Stephenson considers it a concept that individuals should spend time considering.

The second section, entitled “Days When…” concerns those times when the world seems to be closing in, and one doesn’t know what to do. Days when one wants to take revenge, praying seems a waste of time, or all hope is gone are addressed in this section, which includes real-life situations that lead one to examine one’s current situation and attitude. Finally, the last section discusses topics such as jealousy, expectations, and regrets, all of which are relevant and sometimes troublesome in the human experience.

Stephenson writes in a personal and conversational manner that draws the reader’s interest. The book's lessons are based on personal experiences and are tied to biblical stories representing similar experiences or lessons. One connects to the author through his ability to present each lesson in a style that fosters the desire to dig deeper into personal. spiritual, and mental well-being, which, of course, is his purpose in writing this unique book. Each chapter touches on the human experience in a real way through examples from the author’s work with those facing life-threatening illnesses and imminent death.

Stephenson finds purpose in sharing what he has learned about human nature through his work. He cuts to the heart of each topic in short chapters filled with insight and knowledge. The questions provided at the end of each chapter are thought-provoking and challenge the reader to dig deep while considering answers. Though the book can be used as an individual study or even just an interesting read, it seems designed for the unity of small group interaction as it deals with issues everyone faces to some degree. Stephenson’s integrity and empathy shine through this work, as does his desire to help others. His ability to connect real problems facing people to pertinent stories from the Bible evokes a deeper understanding of these stories. This is an engaging study that invites readers to examine their spiritual and mental health.

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