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Originally planned to be about her mother, Laura, the author realized once she began writing that the story was her own. Bedi’s family life was full of mystery, intrigue, abuse, and secrets. She lost both her grandparents, one to murder and one to suicide, and grew up in a house dominated by her mother. Bedi’s father did little to stand up for himself or her, and her mother always took every opportunity to criticize and scream at and about Bedi’s father. After her father passed, the author was alone to take care of her mother and her failing health, although her overbearing and verbally abusive personality lessened little in the waning years. Although Bedi’s professional life seemed to be in perfect order, Vicky suffered immense mental abuse, and she still finds herself struggling with self-doubt even after her mother’s passing.
Bedi’s story is a quick read and will strike a chord with others struggling in their adult lives to deal with the aftermath of having an overbearing and mentally abusive parent. The writing is easy to read, well-planned, and follows a chronological order. There are instances where the precisely detailed showing of the circumstances from childhood comes across more as told about rather than shown. Still, the look into the family history and dynamics is interesting and will likely bring up discussions about generational trauma. Readers trying to understand others who have dealt with similar factors in their lives will find Bedi’s story a good overview and introduction to the topic. Those who have experienced the same trauma should find this book helpful in understanding that they are not alone and there are others with whom to speak.