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How to Apologize to Your Woman...
So that she won't use it
against you in the future by Karen Field Bolek Bolekian Perspective Publishing
book review by Maggie Harding
"Apologizing is among the most difficult but interesting topics I have come to understand through the course of living, both because of my own shortcomings in apologizing and because of apologies received or not received."
Thus Karen Bolek begins her self-help book that is designed to improve communications and, therefore, relationships. She approaches this subject by correlating the principles that apply to successful business leadership with the principles that make a successful family leader. In this way, Bolek brings a unique perspective to the perennial issues that arise between men and women, employers and employees.
Chapters are broken up with examples, suggestions and illustrations, as Bolek takes the reader through the process of becoming a good communicator, one who respects his wife and treats her honestly. The result can be a win-win since a wife that feels appreciated and esteemed will generally respond in kind, with love and gratitude.
Bolek provides the reader with specific examples that illustrate the right and wrong way to apologize. The wrong way often leads to more problems and future fall-out. Learning to read your partner and recognize when she is in Inner Crisis Mode provides helpful insight for the man who wishes to be a successful family leader and the contented husband of a satisfied wife.
How to Apologize to Your Woman... Is Karen Bolek's first book and clearly showcases her talent for identifying problems and providing practical solutions. We look forward to future works.