While conducting experimental research to measure brain activity in a monkey, a team of neuroscientists stumbled upon a remarkable conclusion: by constantly observing, using what are called “mirror neurons,” humans form impressions that influence our actions and reactions even when we are unaware that it is happening. Author Jespersen has expanded this knowledge to create a paradigm she calls the “collective mind.” In this lively and far-reaching exploration, she gives many examples of how this concept works. At an early stage of development, we lose our sense of oneness, perceive our separation from others, and start feeling incomplete. The mirror neurons help us to identify with other people—sometimes positively, wanting to share experience—but sometimes to our detriment, wanting to have what others have. Jespersen’s collective mind model brings power to alleviate that feeling of separation, leading us to a new way of perceiving who we are and how we find happiness individually and collectively.

Jespersen’s composition reveals both her roving lifestyle and her scholarly bent. Born in Denmark but now living in Australia, she has worked with homeless children and adults in a counseling role, affording her the opportunity to examine her thesis of the collective mind from many interpersonal aspects. One’s religion may be part of this journey, she states, but only if “others are allowed theirs as well.” She shares a multitude of personal experiences, incorporating humor, romance, and, at times, the miraculous. Using such examples, she demonstrates her central thesis: we must recognize our innate connectivity with others, disentangle, and love ourselves while respecting and including others. It is a lengthy process leading to the choice to let go by understanding how and what to let be. Jespersen’s book will doubtlessly attract thoughtful readers with its vibrant rainbow mix of psychology, sociology, science, and memoir.

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