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They'll Teach You a Lesson by MaryAnn Aikins AuthorHouse
book review by Jeanette J. Jennis
"Three of the greatest challenges of a parent or educator should be: First to accept their differences. Next to appreciate their differences. Finally, to celebrate their differences"
Those of us who spend any amount of time with young children will benefit greatly from Aikins' warmly insightful book. A teacher for twenty-five years in the field of child development, she has worked extensively with pre-school, kindergarten, and children with special needs, including those diagnosed with autism. Each chapter highlights a personal story about a child in her care, citing ways that helped her meet the needs of that child, develop and maintain closeness, and encourage positive growth in behaviors and skills. The author demonstrates dedication to building responsible relationships while respecting each individual's personality, ability, and even accepting their cherished quirks.
Her willingness to view the world through the perspective of a child will prompt renewed awareness in adults. Remembrance of innocent joy found in ordinary things, as well as challenging, everyday lessons, comes full circle. The author believes that we are all teachers and students frequently exchanging roles to learn from one another. She stresses the value of trying many different approaches to problem solving. Observing that a negative punishment, repeatedly used, such as hitting a child, brings no new or better results, Aikins quotes Einstein: "You can't solve a problem with the same insanity that causes it." Many child educators support her methods. Author Nathaniel Brandon, states: "The most important factor to consider when giving your child the basis for a happy adult life is to treat him with courtesy, respect, benevolence from the very beginning." Aikins delivers stories about children that touch your heart, open your mind, and show you that we teach what we live.